if you want to do something but your girl wants to do something else, just tell her NO. sometimes you can give up and do something she wants, but not all the time though. don’t lose yourself in trying to please someone else, because then she will not like who you become. telling your girl no sometimes will keep her respecting you. practice and the next time you want to do something and she wants to do something else, tell her no. don’t be a wuss. im sure your girl don’t want to be with a wuss.